This evening my dog Lexi was barking like crazy at the windows because there was a strange dog in the neighbor's yard. Nothing I did could get her to stop. She can be domineering and territorial. Ever since I got her, I have tried to assert myself as her pack leader. Lexi is eager to please and wants to do what I ask. She will lie on her side in a surrender position when I ask her to. But the thing is, she never actually surrenders! It seems no matter how long I ask her to stay in the surrender position, her body remains tense, ready to jump back up and resume barking.
And then it dawned on -- she is a mirror of me!
Lately I have been struggling to surrender to various life circumstances. Like Lexi, I know how to go through the motions of surrender, but I rarely actually get there! I keep getting in my own way, trying to solve everything rather than turning it over and trusting that all is occurring in the exact right time and in the exact right way -- even when it doesn't seem to be.
So I took a deep breathe and mustered as much patience with Lexi as I could, staying with her until she completely relaxed and let out a deep sigh. She had surrendered...and so did I. Thank you Lexi!
If you are struggling to let go, be patient. Stay with your deep breathing for as long as it takes you to reach a state of relaxation. Eventually, you will surrender.
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